Do you have any suggestions on how to help a kid eat healthier? I’m mostly vegetarian myself and my kid hates veggies! So how do I get him to eat less mac’n’cheese and chicken nuggets and hotdogs and more quiche, corn, and other healthy things? Does anyone have any suggestions?

Why yes!  As the parent you are still in control of what foods they’re given to eat.  So for starters serve them what you would eat and don’t just serve them what you think they’ll eat (stop the mac & cheese and chicken nuggets).  Introduce veggies in a fun way (like our green bean dance and making up funny names) and don’t make them think of them as a punishment.  Make pastas and soups with lots of vegetables in them.  Serve different vegetables at each main meal and as snacks— and see if they like some cooked over raw or vice versa.  Getting them involved in shopping, growing or cooking also helps. 

Here are a few links with more tips & techniques:

http://www.mykidsreallyeatthis.com/post/817847938/magic-beans

http://www.mykidsreallyeatthis.com/tips

http://www.mykidsreallyeatthis.com/post/6542933468/let-them-help-itll-help-them

Good luck and let me know if any of this works.

Go through my archives for more recipes and fun ideas.

Jamie Oliver’s Food Revolution published my article!

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Jamie Oliver’s Food Revolution published my article!

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Chickpea salad I brought to friend’s party on Saturday.  3 cans chickpeas (garbanzo beans)1 cup plain Greek yogurt2 Tbsp chopped fresh mint1 Tbsp chopped fresh chives2 tsp cumin1/2 tsp cayennejuice of 1 lemondozen chopped grape tomatoessalt & pepper to taste … Continue reading

Just wanted to let you know how much you inspired me. I found your blog, I don’t know almost a year ago I guess on another account and it prompted me to since then research everything I could about healthy, nutritious, and organic food. My family has cut processed stuff by at least 75% in our house and we are all feeling much better! Thank you for the motivation!

Thank you so much! I really do hope to change the way people eat or think about food; not do that they obsess but that they’re aware.
I’m so happy to hear that I’ve helped— it should pay off for you with a healthier family. Good luck with it all.

Some helpful tips

Have you ever seen my tips for getting kids to eat well?  It’s posted on my blog on a separate page, but in case you’ve never seen it I’m posting it here today.

          Eating/feeding tips:

  • Eat with them!  Make them the same dinner you make yourself.  Let them see what you eat.  Don’t just feed them what you think they’ll eat, but what they should.
  • Start them early— when they can first eat solids with foods besides cereal.  They might spit out the beans and peas a few times, but keep doing it.
  • Get them interested in foods by planting vegetables or herbs, shopping at a farm, farmer’s market or stand, and cook with them (let them help)!

  • Don’t treat vegetables like a punishment.  They’re delicious, but kids need to get accustomed to them.
  • Don’t quit.  Really, your kids will eat them.
  • Don’t beat yourself up on those times than you give them the unhealthier stuff.  Just try to limit those times.
  • Have fun!  For example: Make up games or dances; tell them their favorite super hero or cartoon character loves a particular food; cut foods into shapes or arrange on plate so it’s a smiley face.

Cooking tips:

  • If you’ve noticed my pattern with cooking vegetables- I do this for almost all the vegetables I cook (just to varying lengths of time).  Bring pan of water to boil and submerge veggies or steam, when just done (still crisp but tender and still have vivid color) remove from heat, strain and dunk into cold/ice water to stop them from cooking, keep on side until ready to serve meal.  Reheat in sauté pan with pat of butter, pinch of sea salt and some fresh ground pepper until just hot enough to eat (you don’t want them to cook further).  You can substitute butter with olive oil or olive oil and garlic if you prefer.  Just careful not to put too much olive oil to overpower the veggies.
  • If you start with a family recipe or something you know how to cook well, do it.  Don’t try to make gourmet meals if you’re not a confident cook.  Just go for healthful ingredients, fresh vegetables… real food.  Go ahead and cut corners when you’re in a rush—frozen brown rice takes 3 minutes in the microwave as opposed to 40+ minutes normally. 
  • If you need recipes that are kid friendly you can check out my archives.
  • Go with popular cookbooks like those by Jamie Oliver or Mark Bittman—quite easy to follow.

 

           Shopping Tips:

  • Trader Joe’s is such a great place!  Best organic butter— and not outrageously priced.  All their own brands are GMO-free.  Applegate Farms cold cuts are affordable there too.  The abovementioned frozen organic rice- Jasmine or brown.  Cheeses, milk and yogurts are all without growth hormones.  I get so many appetizers for gatherings there.  (One I like to make is from their frozen nan.  I put goat cheese or Boursin with chopped spinach and tomatoes or sliced shiitakes.  Cut into pieces.)
  • Read labels.  Don’t serve anything with high fructose corn syrup, trans fats, artificial colors, artificial sweeteners (even Splend!), or artificial preservatives (BHT, TBHQ).  Notice the top three ingredients as they make up the majority of the food.  Try to avoid the stuff that has sugar listed as first ingredient unless it’s a dessert or just sugar.
  • Try to get local produce, dairy and meats (join a CSA—community supported agriculture program or shop farmers’ markets).   If you can’t try to get those without pesticides and hormones. 
  • Utilize the larger stores own brands of organic foods; they’re usually cheaper. 
  • Buy the fresh stuff on the outer edges of supermarkets instead of the processed stuff that’s usually occupying the middle aisles.
  • Go without kids if you can.  You’ll be less likely to be swayed into getting something they may have seen on TV or with cartoon characters pushing junk at them.
  • If you buy juice- go with organic if possible and avoid added sugar, corn syrup or artificial ingredients.
  • Don’t buy low-fat or fat-free foods (in foods that normally have fat), but just limit the fats you eat.  Go for more vegetable than animal fats.

 

You can also contact me with any particular question or trouble you may be having.

 

Good luck!

Crying is not the end of the world.

I recently received a complimentary copy of a book from a publisher. It was about getting kids to eat without crying. I don’t know if they expected me to blog about it, but much of what I read in there was against my own methods/beliefs. I’m not naming the book because I don’t want to put the author down (after all, she is trying to get kids to eat well) or say that there aren’t many valid points, but I just don’t see what’s so awful about crying occasionally.

Of course, we don’t want our kids to cry. For one it grates on our nerves, but also we don’t like having our kids distressed. I just won’t give in to the cries over a dish just to make them stop. It sets a precedent—they’ll learn to cry to get out of things they don’t want to do or like, even if it’s good for them. I don’t try to make my kids cry (remember, I don’t like to hear it) but I just don’t avoid it. I want them to eat well. If they cry because they don’t like what they’re served without even trying it— well, sorry, that’s the meal and that’s what we’re eating. It’s not like I’m a hard ass all the time. I will often make them meals that they love and do try to please them. I want my kids to be happy. I just think sometimes people are so afraid of crying that they’ll do anything to avoid it— similarly giving in to the food battles just to get them to eat. If they’re really hungry they will eat. If they would just stop crying and try the food, they might find that they like it.

Now what I do do is make healthy and tasty foods. I know most of the time that they will enjoy it if given a chance to taste it. It happens most often with my middle son. I don’t know why he continues to cry when he sees a dish that is new to him and he thinks he won’t like, but he does. He will cry for a little time, realize that we’re not budging (as in making him an alternative meal) and then eat. So often to the bottom of the bowl or until his plate is clean. And when he’s eaten— he’s happy. No signs of having been upset left over from the beginning. I love it when they enjoy their meal.

So, don’t worry about an occasional tear. Do the right thing by them and teach them to eat healthfully. They’ll be better for it than if they’re given whatever they want to eat. Look at these statistics. And, they will learn to stop crying (eventually) and just try other means of getting out of things.

Eating While Away

The past couple of weeks seem like a blur.  We took a long overdue but short family vacation to Washington DC, where the kids were thrilled to see the Space Shuttle Discovery being flown in on top of a 747 right over our heads, enjoyed the Air & Space and Natural History Museums, had a fabulous private tour of the Capitol Building even witnessing Congress voting on a bill, but maybe even most of all that we stayed in a hotel with an indoor pool.  Ah, the little things. 

 

The boys also loved that my strict no soda policy was relaxed.  I allowed them root beer one day and ginger ale or Sprite another. Whoa!  One thing I noticed since we ate out every lunch and dinner was how shoddy kids’ menus are, especially when it comes to giving kids any vegetable.  Almost all the restaurants serve chicken nuggets or tenders and macaroni and cheese.  But there were so few that gave any vegetables with their meal— I don’t really count French fries as a vegetable.  Of course I pay extra and order  sides or my kids split an item off the regular menu. But I just don’t get that these chains can’t see that offering mac and cheese (often just Kraft’s disgusting artificially colored garbage), soda and a free ice cream is not doing these kids any favors.  (I guess I’m on another rant!) 

We need restaurants to get on board with offering kids meals that are tasty and nutritious.  Why must they give the same ol’ same ol’ hot dogs, mac & cheese, chicken nuggets and burgers?  Can’t they use some of the creativity that goes into the “adult menu” on the “children’s menu”?  Don’t they realize that many parents not only want their kids to eat, they also care about them to eat well?   How about a vegetable pasta or a hummus platter?  Maybe offering side salads (green, coleslaw, bean)? 

I think I wouldn’t have minded so much if it had been only one meal, but when one is on vacation most meals are eaten out.  And I find that lunch and dinner are when my own kids eat the most vegetables. Again, I altered what they got by ordering sides or splitting “adult” mains.  I just wish it was part of the package they already offer.

What do you do when you take your kids out to restaurants?